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Divorce and separation

The separation and divorce of parents is a common situation that many young people need to deal with.

The problems that young people need to deal with come in two categories: practical and emotional.

Practically young people will be affected by:

Emotionally young people are affected by:

Unfortunately, with having to deal with such emotional upset and new practical arrangements, there will be differences in how young people will be able to deal with the change. Worst case scenario may mean that the pressure that the young person is under may mean that they are not able to deal with it as well as others, and need support to prevent it affecting their mental health. Care should be taken to monitor how young people are dealing with the situation, so that any practical support or emotional support can be identified.

Help and support

To try and support young people through a separation/divorce situation, it is important that parents and other adults explain that the situation has not been caused in any way by the young person.

Separation/divorce is clearly the result of a breakdown in the relationship between the parents. Although the parental relationship has broken down, young people should be assured that both parents still love them and that they will continue to care for them.

In the same way that adults will need an opportunity to talk about what has happened and how they are feeling, young people will also need this to try and allow them to deal with the situation and then come to terms with it in time.


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